Good Evening readers!!
My name is not really important right now but I would like to introduce myself. I am a 25 year old Master's student born in Naperville, Ill. and raised in Atlanta, Ga. I am currently in my last semester in Purdue University's Statistics Program. I was diagnosed with cancer on September 24th, 2010.
It truly been a rough transition but I have learned a lot about myself and the people around me. My family and I were not really ready for a moment like this to happen this soon my life.
So here is the story time line of the past 6-7 months:
* Sept. 15th: I went to the PUSH (Purdue Univ. Student Hospital) Urgent Care due to the fact that I was in extreme pain in my back. In, which I was told that I have 2 crushed vertebrae. Then told to get an MRI the next day.
* Sept. 16th: I had my first MRI, in which I was told that I had a "mass" that sat on my spine and between the 2 crushed vertebrae. I sat in a chair as the center's employees tried to find a way to get me to the hospital to get a CT scan. I was then admitted into the hospital for the weekend
* Sept. 17th: The CT scan showed that I had a mass on my liver too. So I was scheduled for my first biopsy of my liver.
* Sept. 18th: My mom and brother show up from Atlanta. I also had my second biopsy on my back. I had my first treatment of radiation therapy on the mass on my spine.
* Sept 21st: I was released from the hospital and radiation therapy
* Sept 22nd: My brother and I were told that the mass on my liver was also on my spine. Radiologist was sure that I had a cancer.
* Sept 24th: I was told that I was diagnosed with a hermangiosarcoma that has metastasized from my liver to my spine. The cancer is extremely rare and I was told to see a Sarcoma Specialist in Indianapolis.
* Oct. 1st: I was told that I would be undergoing chemotherapy for 18 weeks.
* Oct. 16th: I had my port placed on the right side of my chest.
* Oct. 26th: I realized that my legs were not working as well as they should. (they collapsed)
* Oct. 27th: I was admitted back into the hospital for another MRI (I had my first male nurse (-:)
*Oct. 28th: I had my MRI and the neurosurgeon walked that day to tell me that I was going to have major back surgery. I spent Halloween in the hospital. Not so scary.
* Nov. 8th: My first day of chemotherapy. (Scariest day of my life)
*Nov. 12th: My 25th birthday!!!
* Nov. 13th: I had dinner at one of my favorite restaurants in Lafayette (Bluefin Bistro)
*Nov. 25th: My hair starts to fall out. (Parents weren't too happy)
* Dec. 20th: I was told I would not be going home for Christmas, also that I would need my first blood transfusion.
* Dec. 24th: I spent the day with my ex and his family and my grandmother was admitted to the hospital.
* Dec. 29th: My grandmother passes away. ( I was notified in a text message) The first time I HATED having cancer!!
* Jan. 8th: Grandmother's funeral. ( Had the worse time for my neuropathy problems)
* Jan 11th: Round 4 of chemo and the first day of hell
* Jan. 15th: first day that I started to puke my brains out.
* Feb. 1st: Round 5 of chemo and the s**t really hit the fan (weakness really kicked in)
* Feb. 22nd: Round 6 of chemo and my brother's 24th birthday!! (Nausea, weakness, and fatigue)
* Feb. 26th: Hospitalized for puking blood and severe dehydration.
* Mar. 7th: Scans done on my body for update on my legions.
*Mar. 12th: I head to ATLANTA to visit my family for the week.
****More to come soon. I hope you all will stay tune for my personal struggles.
I commend your strength to endure what you have gone through and be able to open up in a public platform.I know that's not your style but it can serve as a source of inspiration for everyone that reads. I had no idea... what's crazy is I talked to you between some of these days and you never mentioned it. And here I was thinking you were saying you were tired bc you didn't feel like talking. Yet another example of strength and a testament to the fact that you truly never know what someone is going through. I'm definitely praying for you and commend you on your perspective throughout your journey. Much love and respect -BW
ReplyDeleteThanks Brandon for your comment!
ReplyDeleteI have been in major DENIAL since my diagnosis. I'm just recently accepting the fact that I have cancer. Last semester not a single professor knew of my physical state and not until february did my professors learn of my state. Denial helped me through a lot of these rough times when it was easier to shut down.
I am praying for you... I am grateful to God that He has encouraged you to put this online... for all to see to be encouraged. You are a woman to be revered and I miss you..
ReplyDelete-Chels